i need an herbal soak in one of those baths from spirited away
If you accidentally hurt someone or cross their boundaries and they make you aware of this, literally all you have to do is apologize and stop. You don’t have to beat yourself up internally for months. You don’t have to hate yourself for fucking up. You don’t have to feel like a horrible person. No one benefits from any of that - and at worst, such an extreme reaction will make the person in question less likely to speak up around you in the future, cause even if your negative reaction is directed at yourself and not at them, it’s still unpleasant for everyone involved.
you guys aren’t real people btw. you are your icon. ‘that’s not what i look like’ yes it is .
Let gay/bi men and bi women talk about their attraction to men in LGBT spaces without people saying that men are awful and it sucks to be attracted to them. Let bi men talk about their attraction to women in LGBT spaces without people saying that men’s attraction to women is disgusting. Let men and people who like men exist in LGBT spaces without being attacked by sexist assholes.
my tumblr mutuals are like the people i sit near in class and chat to sometimes but never have the confidence or social skills to hold continuous conversations with them
the older I get, the more attractive stability becomes……………… i just want some god damn peace of mind and a non-stressful environment